This is a prevalent scenario in a lot of MLM campaigns.
Is there anyone out there that experienced this - after joining because of the wonderful promises that was been made to you, turned out to be a disaster?
What I mean is - NO SUPPORT?
They do say that your growth really do depend upon the support of your team, which is true.
But what if you experience, that you are this one really excited to do the business, and you are now trying to coordinate with the one that recruited you.
However the signal is so low (",) or intended to ignore you at all.
It's your choice whether you quit or not.
If you do quit, it's alright with them because they already profited from you and when you do strive and produce results, they are happier for they can benefit more from you.
It's very tempting to think on this way.
But this I want to tell you of another value that you are going to receive in MLM industry.
And that's when you acquire the skill of FOCUS.
Choices are very simple, allow yourself to think that you got victimized and being used, or train your self to be better, for there is no such thing as help, but SELF HELP.
This is a great opportunity to hone your strength on having self BELIEF, TRUST and most all, having FAITH on yourself.
Tell you a secret.
The other way that you can find your greatness within you, is being in a situation that you think you've been abandoned.
If you will just ONLY learn how to relax and let go, and allow God to flow within you, you'll be surprised on wonderful ideas that you can think of, and then ACT on them (",).
You will have ideas that you should mingle with your crosslines and ask some sharing on how they do the business, you can also ask for mentorship with other leaders on your respective MLM campaign.
A lot of ways, a lot of wonderful ways will be revealed to you.
So if you think that you've been abandoned whomever recruited you, you must thank him/her for the opportunity that they have given you.
The opportunity to tap that GREATNESS within you (",)!!!
To your Success,
Friday, August 31, 2012
When does Selfishness turned out to be good ?
When we were still young, we are always scolded for being stubborn.
That we should always follow the elders for they do know what is right.
There's nothing wrong with that, for they love us so much that they are just only taking care of us.
Guiding us on the right path so that we won't get lost in life.
However as time passed by, being bombarded by this disciplines, it already hinders our own growth, freedom to choose or to express ourselves.
It always ends up with - if you love your parents you should sacrifice whatever it is that you've dreamed of, that doesn't agree with their values, so that you will make them happy.
And this is happening not only with the core family but with relationship with other people as well.
You are so Selfish!!! as they say - You must sacrifice your own happiness for my own happiness.
There will be battle between conscience and selfishness with this one.
So sad to hear but this is what causes all war.
You must abide with our rule or else we are going to wipe off your clan.
Winston Churchill once said that - if you do have an enemy, congratulate yourself for you do stand for what you believe in.
There's also a story in Think and Grow Rich where there is this little girl that no matter what, she didn't leave his uncle until she gets her dime.
There's a little bit of confusion here, because since we are young, we are already trained with this kind of discipline.
"That you should always think of others, before of yourself."
But there are a lot of examples out there - that certain people didn't maximize their life because of always considering other people first.
Quite a challenge to make a decision huh? (",)
What would you choose - your dream or consider others first?
Because if you choose your dream first and not consider others, there will be this voice within you that will always bug you, saying "oh you selfish being. "
Well if you are such a good samaritan and really do like to serve other people, why don't we just put it this way.
Why not imagine yourself that you can help a lot of people if you are more successful, the more money that you do have, the more mouth that you can feed or to what ever cause.
Or this one is much better, why not be so selfishly connected with God that you allow his divinity to flow through you, so that you can better serve mankind.
How's that? (",)
So if you find people that are mocking you or doesn't agree with your decision in joining in the MLM industry, just always empower yourself affirmation :
"I've made this decision so that I can make my self better and so that I can also serve more."
To your Success,
Thursday, August 30, 2012
As you Sow, so you Reap...
One of the values that Robert Kiyosaki appreciated in the MLM industry is that it can provide you great training on how to handle a business.
And in due time should you decided to build your own business, you're already equipped with the right tools to make it run smoothly.
When I first entered in the industry, not fully aware of the "How to's", the only thing that I have is my dream, and my enthusiasm, so I just go out there and like a master salesman, present my business to everyone I know and to everyone I don't know.
I'm fully pumped up, eyes turned all white out, body vigorously shaking, foam coming out in my mouth after a very inspiring training in the office, crawl my way out upside down - turned out to be an exorcist (",)
Well, got some good results with that, experienced some good income.
But after some time had passed I realized, I just turned to be on something - a Salesman.
I always hear the cliche in the MLM industry, that people are your business, my first impression with that is, yeap that's true people are your business, because the more you recruit, the more income that you are going to have.
That's my interpretation way back then coming from a salesman's mindset, who doesn't want a bread right?
Besides what is your reason involving your self with MLM?
Once a prospect got recruited, mission accomplished then start looking again for another target.
That's the beauty of MLM, teach that to your downline, and your group will grow.
Possibly (",).
Um, a good start though, because in every business, learning how to sell is really a prerequisite if you want to be successful..
But there's a deeper look in MLM, a grandeur that not everyone are yet ready to see.
The capability to build your own empire!
This may take a while though, for you really do have to established good relationship to a lot of people.
Now, I do fully understand the cliche "People are your business", on a broader look it's the Quality relationship that you build with your physical friends.
Your partners in business can provide Quality results for you already established Quality Relationship from the start.
There will be harmnoy with your business,
masterminding with your team will be more productive, encouraging, and most of all inspiring.
As they say that MLM is get rich quick scheme is TRUE!
TRUE for those who already established their reputation, already have an army, already have a community, already have an empire, built based on friendship, trust, respect and most of all LOVE.
However the sad thing with us newbie's since the reason why we joined this business is to produce income based on our respective intents.
We sometimes get envious for those networkers that profits pretty good in just only a short period of time.
So we get tempted to take some desperate actions to produce recruits.
However after all those hardwork and effort, still no results coming out, until to the point we get exhausted, and then we quit, then telling to ourselves that MLM industry is not for me.
MLM is a huge business, envision it as your own company, envision it as your own business that you are going to take in the long run.
So always consider the quality relationship that you build with people as you go along with this empire building business.
MLM is such a beauty, however to only those that are ready to see.
After all, Rome wasn't built in a day (",)...
To your Success,
And in due time should you decided to build your own business, you're already equipped with the right tools to make it run smoothly.
When I first entered in the industry, not fully aware of the "How to's", the only thing that I have is my dream, and my enthusiasm, so I just go out there and like a master salesman, present my business to everyone I know and to everyone I don't know.
I'm fully pumped up, eyes turned all white out, body vigorously shaking, foam coming out in my mouth after a very inspiring training in the office, crawl my way out upside down - turned out to be an exorcist (",)
Well, got some good results with that, experienced some good income.
But after some time had passed I realized, I just turned to be on something - a Salesman.
I always hear the cliche in the MLM industry, that people are your business, my first impression with that is, yeap that's true people are your business, because the more you recruit, the more income that you are going to have.
That's my interpretation way back then coming from a salesman's mindset, who doesn't want a bread right?
Besides what is your reason involving your self with MLM?
Once a prospect got recruited, mission accomplished then start looking again for another target.
That's the beauty of MLM, teach that to your downline, and your group will grow.
Possibly (",).
Um, a good start though, because in every business, learning how to sell is really a prerequisite if you want to be successful..
But there's a deeper look in MLM, a grandeur that not everyone are yet ready to see.
The capability to build your own empire!
This may take a while though, for you really do have to established good relationship to a lot of people.
Now, I do fully understand the cliche "People are your business", on a broader look it's the Quality relationship that you build with your physical friends.
Your partners in business can provide Quality results for you already established Quality Relationship from the start.
There will be harmnoy with your business,
masterminding with your team will be more productive, encouraging, and most of all inspiring.
As they say that MLM is get rich quick scheme is TRUE!
TRUE for those who already established their reputation, already have an army, already have a community, already have an empire, built based on friendship, trust, respect and most of all LOVE.
However the sad thing with us newbie's since the reason why we joined this business is to produce income based on our respective intents.
We sometimes get envious for those networkers that profits pretty good in just only a short period of time.
So we get tempted to take some desperate actions to produce recruits.
However after all those hardwork and effort, still no results coming out, until to the point we get exhausted, and then we quit, then telling to ourselves that MLM industry is not for me.
MLM is a huge business, envision it as your own company, envision it as your own business that you are going to take in the long run.
So always consider the quality relationship that you build with people as you go along with this empire building business.
MLM is such a beauty, however to only those that are ready to see.
After all, Rome wasn't built in a day (",)...
To your Success,
Sunday, August 26, 2012
The Liver Spread Approach
Yesterday was such a windy sunny afternoon, while I enjoy brooming the dried leaves, a wonderful story flow in my mind like the breeze of the wind, I can't remember where I've heard or read it.
There was a fisherman saw a man on a boat with his feet up, body stretched with his arms pillowing his head.
The fisherman always wake up early in the morning and always the first to be seen on the open sea doing his work, he finds it disturbing seeing that man doing nothing and just letting life pass by.
So he went to that man and had a little chat with him, being polite as he wanted to be, he send his message indirectly by telling the story of the grasshopper and the ant ( Hardwork Concept ), told the man hoping that all people will be hardworking so that someday they will just relax and enjoy life.
Now the man, also answered him indirectly, by telling the Water Service story ( Leverage Concept ). The fisherman doesn't have any idea on what that man is talking about, so what he did is told him upfront that don't waste time, should be doing a lot of work so that someday you'll reap the rewards - having that time and financial freedom, and would have the chance to appreciate life nothing more nothing less.
The man just paused and look at him straight in eye trying to appease his disturbed soul, then smiled and said, what do you think am I doing right now my dear friend? (",)
After a long comforting conversation and sharing of the system he used, the man finally introduced himself.
The owner of fishing company where the fisherman is working on.
I also received a text brigade from Coach Smurkydad :
Once upon a time there were 2 friends. The first one decided to study college for 5 years then he'll look for a job when he graduates, The second guy chose to study and learn networking for 5 years. After that he will retire early and enjoy his life. Between the two, who will you choose? (",)
Leveraging is such a poweful concept, can really do make a quantum leap of your life.
A Quantum contribution to the welfare of the community.
Archimedes once said, “Give me a lever long enough and a fulcrum on which to place it, and I shall move the world.” (",)
To your Success,
Saturday, August 25, 2012
I Object your Horton...
It's already part in our industry to face a lot of objections when presenting our business, each has their respective reasons :
For me, I find objection like my ginko biloba, because there will always be a certain point of time that you don't know the answer of your prospects queries, and having that in mind, it already given you a hint to do your homework, it doesn't matter if you will look like Mr Bean by not knowing the answer.
However you've just added another neural connection on your brain because you've learned something new (",)
For the newbies, enjoy talking to your prospects and always jot down all the the objections that you don't know the answer.
Even if there are prospects whose intent is just to annoy, still perceive it as another opportunity for growth.
It's already been a cliche in this industry that :
Objection is a Question in disguise.
Enjoy everything on your venture in this industry.
There's a lot of fun learning.
There's a lot of fun sharing.
And there's lot of fun helping (",)
To your Success,
P.S. You may browse this article if you want some specifics of handling objections >>> http://www.eduardreformina.com/2012/04/answering-prospects-objections-is-fun.html#more
- some got already victimized
- some just want to annoy
- and there are some that really do want to get educated.
For me, I find objection like my ginko biloba, because there will always be a certain point of time that you don't know the answer of your prospects queries, and having that in mind, it already given you a hint to do your homework, it doesn't matter if you will look like Mr Bean by not knowing the answer.
However you've just added another neural connection on your brain because you've learned something new (",)
For the newbies, enjoy talking to your prospects and always jot down all the the objections that you don't know the answer.
Even if there are prospects whose intent is just to annoy, still perceive it as another opportunity for growth.
It's already been a cliche in this industry that :
Objection is a Question in disguise.
Enjoy everything on your venture in this industry.
There's a lot of fun learning.
There's a lot of fun sharing.
And there's lot of fun helping (",)
To your Success,
P.S. You may browse this article if you want some specifics of handling objections >>> http://www.eduardreformina.com/2012/04/answering-prospects-objections-is-fun.html#more
Thursday, August 23, 2012
Urgent >>> Success Enhancer!!!
Tony Robbins was been regarded as the Top consultant for Peak Performance.
He is one of the most well paid Success coach there is.
Why?
It's because of the QUALITY of value that he provide.
However in order to produce this kind of 'value', there is a certain prerequisite that you should obtain.
A Garngantuan Skill.
Yesterday I received a text message from coach smurkydad, he shared a certain quote from his friend -
"Your Success is Totally Dependent on Your Skillset. In FACT the INCOME you Earn is in Direct Proportion to Your Skillset. GREAT SKILLS equals GREAT INCOME! SOME SKILLS equals SOME INCOME! NO SKILLS equals NO INCOME!"
I noticed this from my colleague from our previous company, he is originally overt type of person, but he decided to be a non mediocre networker.
So he modeled a lot of leaders and took responsibility of Creating trainings of his current group, and as time goes by, he developed skills that he never imagined.
Right now he is already affiliated with other company but in just only a short span of time, he created a collosal group, not just only a group, but QUALITY group, those that are ready to duplicate him.
After witnessing his metamorphosis, I was Inspired to do the same.
It may not be that fast, but the important thing is I've already Initiated.
All of us started being a follower at first, because we need guidance.
But since we are ever evolving beings.
You can't help it, but you are going to GROW! (",)
To your Success,
He is one of the most well paid Success coach there is.
Why?
It's because of the QUALITY of value that he provide.
However in order to produce this kind of 'value', there is a certain prerequisite that you should obtain.
A Garngantuan Skill.
Yesterday I received a text message from coach smurkydad, he shared a certain quote from his friend -
"Your Success is Totally Dependent on Your Skillset. In FACT the INCOME you Earn is in Direct Proportion to Your Skillset. GREAT SKILLS equals GREAT INCOME! SOME SKILLS equals SOME INCOME! NO SKILLS equals NO INCOME!"
I noticed this from my colleague from our previous company, he is originally overt type of person, but he decided to be a non mediocre networker.
So he modeled a lot of leaders and took responsibility of Creating trainings of his current group, and as time goes by, he developed skills that he never imagined.
Right now he is already affiliated with other company but in just only a short span of time, he created a collosal group, not just only a group, but QUALITY group, those that are ready to duplicate him.
After witnessing his metamorphosis, I was Inspired to do the same.
It may not be that fast, but the important thing is I've already Initiated.
All of us started being a follower at first, because we need guidance.
But since we are ever evolving beings.
You can't help it, but you are going to GROW! (",)
To your Success,
London Bridge is falling down...
The Other day, I had the chance to go to Robinsons Pioneer and watched Bourne Legacy and Expendables 2.
What I noticed about the film is that there is this common trait among the protagonist and that is they do not backed out on their mission, it’s either they will win or die.
Way back then while attending trainings in MLM. I remember they always used the battle story of Napoleon Bonaparte for some inspiration about commitment.
The story goes when Napoleon and his army is already in the vicinity of their opponent, he ordered his army to burn the ships, and declared that there’s no point of turning back, it’s either they win in this battle or they die.
It took a while for me to get the essence of the message, there are some networkers followed the concept, some of them resigned from their work, some students stopped their studies and really do focused in this industry, some of them succeeded and some of them thought that they didn’t.
However to those networkers that thought they didn’t victor, they already triumphed in a lot of ways, they already surpassed in the Decision making process, which is the first and foremost important if you want to be successful.
You already jumped off from your comfort zone, it’s now going to be automatic for youself to adapt. You are not aware that you have acquired a certain skill and not aware that you've already learned something (",)
It's alright if you thought that you died in the battle (metaphorically speaking)
The truth is you didn't (",)
You've gained!
You've WON!
To your Success,
Monday, August 20, 2012
The way of the Samurai
It's too sad to observe that the generations that are coming along turns to get more and more not too much acquianted with their families.
In turns out they are offering too much of their time to their peers or the worst part is they get lost in life and in due time their life will be a mess.
Way back in college during my Rizal course, I've read when our National Hero was invited to provide speech on a certain gathering he quoted that "Youth is the Hope of our Motherland."
Way back then people are really respectful, well mannered and have high morale, because since there's not that much of distractions, and the Quality time with the family is the core system way back then.
Now what I'm happy about is when I was oriented in the MLM industry, I've witnessed drastic change from the lives of many people, it's not just about the money, for yes ofcourse as we all know why is that possible because of the system of LEVERAGE.
What really do seize my attention is the testimonials of these blessed people regarding the increase of the QUALITY relationship within their family, since they already achieved the TIME and FINANCIAL freedom they are now always there for their families.
That is what I ingrained on my mind, just imagine all of the citizens have great foundation within their family, what would it be our country will look like?
A country full of leaders..
Having QUALITY relationship with your family establishes the most important value of all, "LOVE"
Discipline is not necessary anymore, love and respect will be automatic, your sons and daughters will now make wise decisions. Because every actions and decision that they are going to make will be dedicated to you, because they love you so much! (",)
Leveraging is the MLM industry is not just only within the system.
There's also leverage of touching peoples lives.
It's true that you really have to work hard for the future of your family, I can feel the hardship of my friends abroad seeing their posts on FB wall that they are really missing their family, but they don't have any other choice but to work abroad.
There is this Mom, she just went home from Saudi just to undergo labor here in the country, but then after just 3 months after delivering, she went back to Saudi.
And not a day will pass that she will always post on FB that everymorning upon waking up she is always crying, missing her baby.
And at night she is having a hard time to sleep because she misses those puffy cheeks and cute angelic smile.
How fortunate we are to those are already involved in this industry for we are already in the right path, it may not be that quick though but it's much faster to realize our dream to have TIME FREEDOM.
It's my HONOR to be a networker, for we have MLM as a dynamic tool to provide that QUALITY relationship to our fellow citizens.
It's my HONOR to be a Networker!
Now take out your cedula, and altogether let's tear them all out and shout REVOLUTION!
Oops, got carried away, turned out to be katipunans (",)
To your Success,
Sunday, August 19, 2012
It's the best time at Smurky's (",)
It's been a FUNtastic and awesome experience yesterday during Coach Smurkydads seminar..
Just like the talents in STAR MAGIC they do undergo extensive workshop to be a TOTAL ENTERTAINER..
It's also the same thing in MLM, we should do our best and keep on improving on these aspects - Prospecting, Inviting and Presentation.
There's nothing wrong if you excel one of these traits compared to others but if you really do want to boost your career, it's much better if you harness all of these attributes.
Versatility is also important in our industry, and as the saying goes - different folks, different strokes, and if you don't have any pay-ins for a year, you are going to have a heart S___ :-)
There is this variety of personalities of prospects, must learn how to use certain key words, have that keen sense to push the right button, and must be aware of forbbidden words that will sabotage your negotiation.
I was this flabbergasted while listening to Coach Smurkydad, you know why?
Because I felt his sincerity, there is conviction on the way he spoke, and you can really sense this kind of compassion towards his fellow networkers.
I really do send my highest appreciation to these kind of wonderful people, because they really do share the wisdom that they have acquired after all those long years of venture.
The ability to inspire people, aiding us to realize to who we really are and that is we are all GREAT :-)
I also wish that some of my fellow networkers could also have a taste of his awe-inspiring seminar.
What I really do loved the most is when he left this parting message that what we should value the most is the person who would we have become on this MLM quest :-)
Enjoy the Weekend and Happy Sunday everyone!
To your Success,
Just like the talents in STAR MAGIC they do undergo extensive workshop to be a TOTAL ENTERTAINER..
It's also the same thing in MLM, we should do our best and keep on improving on these aspects - Prospecting, Inviting and Presentation.
There's nothing wrong if you excel one of these traits compared to others but if you really do want to boost your career, it's much better if you harness all of these attributes.
Versatility is also important in our industry, and as the saying goes - different folks, different strokes, and if you don't have any pay-ins for a year, you are going to have a heart S___ :-)
There is this variety of personalities of prospects, must learn how to use certain key words, have that keen sense to push the right button, and must be aware of forbbidden words that will sabotage your negotiation.
I was this flabbergasted while listening to Coach Smurkydad, you know why?
Because I felt his sincerity, there is conviction on the way he spoke, and you can really sense this kind of compassion towards his fellow networkers.
I really do send my highest appreciation to these kind of wonderful people, because they really do share the wisdom that they have acquired after all those long years of venture.
The ability to inspire people, aiding us to realize to who we really are and that is we are all GREAT :-)
I also wish that some of my fellow networkers could also have a taste of his awe-inspiring seminar.
What I really do loved the most is when he left this parting message that what we should value the most is the person who would we have become on this MLM quest :-)
Enjoy the Weekend and Happy Sunday everyone!
To your Success,
Friday, August 17, 2012
Yipee!... My Blogger is now set up... Now what ? (",)
First of, let me open this article in the state of appreciation to life, for life is really wonderful, if you would just allow it.
Yesterday, a fellow colleague allowed me to be part of her facebook community, I'm so flattered when she told me that she was following my blog, and she requested if I can also post some tips on how to get started about blogging.
At first I got nervous, because I'm just a week and half old in the world of blogging and I don't have enough knowledge that I can share, also I don't have any rule book that I can share that MUST be followed. But instead of backing off, I took it as another opportunity for growth, and right now I'm going to give my best as I could, and to you my friend, just like what I've said, this is dedicated for you, you know who you are :-)
Well according Wikipedia doodle doo, blog is a discussion or information site published on the World Wide Web consisting of discrete entries ("posts") typically displayed in reverse chronological order so the most recent post appears first.. ( I just copy pasted it (",) )...
And now, let's go free style...(",)
For me I find blog is like a personal journal and the only difference is that you are allowing other people to view what ever it is that you are writing..
You must have this freedom to express your self but be forewarned though of being discreet of the words that you are using because this time you already have an audience, it's true that you can express yourself but not too much to the point that you are already expressing foul words like F@%k, D&*!N, A#& or any thing like that, because it will reflect your personality, and just kindly give respect to blogger, wordpress or what ever your blog you are using.. It already allowed you to share your opinion, now just kindly give back by being discreet. In short have balance.
What to write about?
This I learned from my Mentor Eduard Reformina, first you must select your target audience and from there you will get an idea on what to write, it's just that simple.
Don't Copy or Plagiarize
Don't just copy paste resources and then compile it and then claim it as yours. There's no life to it. you will just look like a robot.
There's no expression.
But what you can do is study the material, internalize it and then share what you have learned.. because this what you have learned concept, is really powerful because there is already an embodiment of your higherself with it. There is more sincerity, conviction and there's more involvement of yourself.
You are now sharing not the material, but you are sharing YOU, sharing on what you have learned.. Now that's life, that's expression :-)
Let me put this creed from a reknowned martial artist :
Absorb what is useful
Reject what is useless
Add specifically your own
For me, Self Expression is the name of the game in the world of blogging, I remember during the prime of Michael Jordan, everybody wants to be like Mike, it's too sad because there are a lot good things that is already lined up for them, but they do not recognize it, they are too busy putting too much attention to someone else.
So what you can do is train your self to listen intently to whatever thought that is flowing in your mind, I remember Einstein once quoted, "I've just wasted my time gathering a lot of information, which is limited while space has infinite ideas."
There's nothing wrong about admiring other people, but admire HOW do they get to express themselves.
Don't attack or criticize anyone on your article, because the only person that you are harming is yourself, you are the one that is emitting that negative energy and by as we are fully aware of this powerful law, you'll get what ever it is that you are giving.
It's easy to ridicule or make fun of someone else, but always remember, what is your intention of writing a blog? establishing yourself right?.. and if your audience can feel this annoyance about you, well it's a no brainer thing on what's going to happen.
If you can praise or appreciate someone/something, do a lot it, and if you find it tempting to criticize, zip it, turn away your attention from it. Do a certain thing that will make you feel good. Always remember that the only person that you are hurting is you when you attack other people.
So far this is what I know and hope that it helped you a little, hehe, but just as what Buddha said don't believe everything that I've said, experience it first and then decide to believe :-)
And I'm so blessed because I do have a body of a God,
Whose Body? Zeus? that's gorgeous...
No, the body of Buddha :-)
Shalaloooong :-)
However If you really do want to expand your knowledge about blogging, you may take a look and study the wisdom of these well reknowned and respected leaders in the Online Marketing Industry.
Go to these sites >>>
http://www.gilbeyaguirre.com/
http://www.7figurehomebusiness.com
To your Success,
P.S.
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