When does Selfishness turned out to be good ?

        When we were still young, we are always scolded for being stubborn. 

        That we should always follow the elders for they do know what is right. 

        There's nothing wrong with that, for they love us so much that they are just only taking care of us. 

        Guiding us on the right path so that we won't get lost in life.

       However as time passed by, being bombarded by this disciplines, it already hinders our own growth, freedom to choose or to express ourselves. 

       It always ends up with - if you love your parents you should sacrifice whatever it is that you've dreamed of, that doesn't agree with their values, so that you will make them happy.

       And this is happening not only with the core family but with relationship with other people as well.

       You are so Selfish!!! as they say - You must sacrifice your own happiness for my own happiness.

       There will be battle between conscience and selfishness with this one. 

        So sad to hear but this is what causes all war. 

       You must abide with our rule or else we are going to wipe off your clan.

        Winston Churchill once said that - if you do have an enemy, congratulate yourself for you do stand for what you believe in.

        There's also a story in Think and Grow Rich where there is this little girl that no matter what, she didn't leave his uncle until she gets her dime.

        There's a little bit of confusion here, because since we are young, we are already trained with this kind of discipline.

        "That you should always think of others, before of yourself."

        But there are a lot of examples out there - that certain people didn't maximize their life because of always considering other people first.

        Quite a challenge to make a decision huh? (",)

        What would you choose - your dream or consider others first?

        Because if you choose your dream first and not consider others, there will be this voice within you that will always bug you, saying "oh you selfish being. "

        Well if you are such a good samaritan and really do like to serve other people, why don't we just put it this way. 

        Why not imagine yourself that you can help a lot of people if you are more successful, the more money that you do have, the more mouth that you can feed or to what ever cause.

        Or this one is much better, why not be so selfishly connected with God that you allow his divinity to flow through you, so that you can better serve mankind. 

        How's that? (",)

        So if you find people that are mocking you or doesn't agree with your decision in joining in the MLM industry, just always empower yourself affirmation :

         "I've made this decision so that I can make my self better and so that I can also serve more."

To your Success,